Tuesday, May 15, 2018

Having cold feet

How to get over cold feet before your wedding

Yes having cold feet is a normal thing. You are probably starting to question your wedding.  I'm here to tell you its all normal and give you a couple things to do to get over cold feet.

1) TALK IT OUT. Yes I no it sounds so simple but you would not image how scary it can be to tell your future husband/ wife that your scared. It will be the best thing that you can do. Just sit down with them and talk it out. Most of the time you will find out that they are scared to. Once you talk it out you and your partner will be on the same page and you can work through it.

2) Try to picture your life with out your partner. Sit down and really think if you can live your life with out them. it  was really meant to be. If  you cant picture a day with out him/ her then it was meant to be and you have nothing to worry about.

3) Make a List. Write down all the things that you love about them. Then write down all the things that you cant stand or the things that you cant stand about your partner. If the list of things you cant stand is bigger than the list of the things you love then it might be time to rethink everything.

Just remember that cold feet is normal. Your not crazy if you have cold feet, it just means that you are nervous about your big day. There are more ways to get over having cold feet, Breathing will help a lot. Just take a Step back and breath.

so in love 

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