Vows

Vows

Are you having trouble finding the right words to say to the love of your life. That’s okay we all have trouble trying to come up with just the right words to say. You could go with the Traditional ones that everyone uses. Or you could think out side the box and write your own. Now you have no clue how to get started never fear the are thousands of websites out there that you can use to help you write your vows.

The best website that I have found to help me write my vows is my wedding vows.They have so many different templates that you can use for your vows, and all you must do is just put his/ her name in them and there you go they will think you spent all this time writing vows but really it only took you like 10 min.

Now for me I think there is nothing better than sitting down and writing your own vows, but some people can’t do it. It is not that they don’t want to it is just to hard for them because they think everything they write does not sound good. That’s why this website is a great help.

They also have different category like traditional vows, romantic vows, they even have remarriage vows. They great thing is you don’t have to use the hole thing. You might just want to use part of the vows online and write the rest. You might even want to take parts from all the different vows on this website and combine them together to make your own it is all up to. You it is your day.  

wedding vows template 

Photo credit given to: https://www.myweddingvows.com/

Center Pieces

Center Pieces

Do you want something different? Something other than just plain flowers as your center pieces. Try this amazing website called woman getting married. This is a great website to find different center pieces. From candles to floating mini hot air balloons.

They have elegant center pieces on this website, to great ones if you would like to have interactive center pieces. My favorite is the bowl of Legos, with that you can have your guest show you their creativity. You can have your guest build you a cute little figure that the bride and groom can keep forever.

If you want to go for the more elegant feel at your wedding they have beautiful centerpieces that consist of just turning different size wine glasses upside down and putting candle on the other side. With this one you could put different size candles on them so that they are not all uniform. By doing this it will give them a little different look and keep everything unique. 

If you are going for a more outdoor look they have a great center piece that consist of putting plants under glass domes. If you do this centerpiece you could change it up at every table. You could put different plants at different tables. One table could have roses and other small plants under it, then another table could be a different flower.

It is all up to you what you want your center piece to be. You could be unique and come up with your very own center piece that no one has seen before. And there is nothing wrong with using just different flowers for your center pieces. It is your day you want to be happy with what you choose.

unique center pieces

unique center pieces

Photo Credit given to: https://www.womangettingmarried.com/15-unique-wedding-centerpieces/

Groomsmen Boxes

Groomsmen Boxes 

Groomsmen Boxes 

There is nothing like asking your best bro to stand up beside on the happiest day of your life. Let’s be real girls this is all up to you. There is no way that your soon to be husband is going to think of a cute way to ask his best friends to be in the wedding. It may not seem like such a big deal to find a nice way to say will you be a part of my big day, but it is. You want to make your friends feel like they are special too.

unique groomsmen boxes 

Photo Credit given to: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/AfIaZlx5ZFnhJpevugg2nKB9kklacfO5fKyCrR1bVNeKRloodLM9Omc/

A great website to find cool ways to ask them is pinterest. On there you can find a thousand different ways to ask someone if they will be your groomsmen. I went with a cute wooden box that on the inside it said, “Sorry Bro my Future Wife made me do this! Will you be my best man”?

Once I wrote that on the in side of the box, I had to site down and think what to put in the box. In all the boxes I put a Navy-blue tie. I put this in the box because our wedding colors are navy blue, gray and silver. This way the guys don’t have to go out and buy the tie and so they all match (also I’m making them buy their own suits, this is the least I can do).

Another thing that I put in the box was a mug that has their name on it. The mug has the word groomsmen or best man on them. This is something that they can keep forever, to remind them of the special day. I also put their favorite snacks in there. I put chips, beef jerky and candy in each box.

There are a million and one ways to ask your best bros to be in you wedding. Come up with something unique. Make it something that they will always remember.

Do It Your Self Wine Glass

Do It Your Self Wine Glass 

One of the best things you can give your maid of honor is a gift from the heart. A great website to get idea is Pinterest. For My wedding party I made the girls wine glasses with glitter and their names on them. the things that you will need for this project is a wine glass, spray adhesive, glitter and a top coat. I also got glitter letters so that I could put there name on it.

things you will need for your DIY

first thing you need to do is lay down news paper so that you do not get glitter everywhere. Then you will need to tape off the bottom of your wine glass were you want the glitter.

Next you need to spray a light layer of adhesive on your glass. You will need to let it sit a little so that the adhesive gets sticky.

The best spray adhesive 

Next you need to sprinkle the glitter evenly over the glass. Once it is evenly coated you need to spay it with a clear top coat to keep all the glitter on the glass.

Glitter to match my wedding

The last step if you want you can put there name on the glass in glitter.

Diy wine glass

this is a great gift that your maid of honor will love. It came from the heart and they will always have it to remind them of your wedding, and all the fun they had.

Gifts for your wedding party

Gifts for your wedding party

One of the best things about a wedding is spending the day with  your best friends as your maid of honor. Now the hard part is coming up with a great way to ask them to be a part it. pinterest

I did this really cute box to ask my best friends to be in my wedding. 

Great way to ask your friends to be in your wedding 

It might just look like a plain brown box but its what is on the inside that counts. I found this great saying on like internet to put in the top of the box to ask them.

Cute saying to ask your made of honor 

The best part is the things you put inside. In the boxes that I made I have a wine glass that I DIY.

DIY wine glass

I also put in a bottle of alcohol (only for the ones that were over 21). There is also a lot more that I put in there box, I put the letter of there first name and a bottle of nail polish that matches the wedding colors.

gift ideas for your wedding party

There are many other  great things that you can put in there gift from a picture of you guys together to jewelry that they can wear to the wedding. It is all up to you what you want to put in the box, or what ever you decide you give them as long as its from the heart. 

themes

themes

Let’s talk about themes. What do you want your wedding to look like? There are many different themes out there to choose from. You can even go outside the box and come up with your own theme. Your theme must be special to you, if balloons make you happy then have a balloon wedding. There are many different themes out there from modern to rustic. You can have anything as a theme. One of the best way to pick a them is to start by thinking about things that make you and your partner happy.  As for example if you guys both love rustic farm/ old antique kinds of things, then make that your wedding themes.

rustic wedding  theme 

If you both like sports you can do a sports team wedding. There is also a down side to picking your them it can go horrible wrong. One thing that you DO NOT want to do is wait too long to pick a theme , that could be the worst thing to do .There are great websites out there that you can use to show you how themes have went wrong. What I mean is that you could have a farm theme wedding and it could look like everyone else's farm theme wedding . It is your special day you need to put yourself into your wedding. It is great to add little things like pictures of yourself and your partner doing fun things together. It’s a great way for stories to start being told. You can also add your names written out in a poem. A good thing to remember when picking a theme is don't just pick one thing. For example don't just pick lace. there is not much you can do with just lace as in the picture above it is a fall rustic wedding with lace added in. if u pick some thing to literal, like just lace it will make it harder to plan and find things for your wedding.  There are many other Do's and Don'ts for wedding if you visit shefinds. They will give you everything you need to know about wedding themes. 

Budget

Budget

Now that you have the date picked you are ready to move to the hard part, the Budget!!. This is the part were you think how much you want to spend on your special day. I have found that now that you have a date set you can now start to save for the big day. Depending on the day you picked you will have a lot of time ,or very little. What ever you do don't try to out do someone else's wedding. this day is about you and your partner. Spend only what you can afford weather its 5,000 or 50,000 you do not want to spend the rest of your life paying off your wedding. the best thing I can tell you is once you come up with  a total amount you want to spend brake it up over every thing you need to buy. this what you know how much on each thing you can spend on. For example make folder and put how much you can spend in each on your computer.

Wedding Folders

With these folders you will keep to your budget, and have the perfect day that you and your partner want and wont have to worry about being in Debt. There are also so many websites out there that you can visit to help you learn about budget. A great one that I found, that also is funny is https://apracticalwedding.com/ .  Just remember this is your special day.